Have your cake and eat it. Has the Wedding Cake had it’s day?

As we enter ‘wedding season’ (not that its such a season these days with weddings being popular all year round) planning fever will have set in for many couples tying the knot over the next few months and with this hastily made budget adjustments.

As a result, the wedding cake which has long been regarded as a work of edible art, from origins back in the Middle Ages, back when it was originally a pie, it was a status symbol – the larger the cake, the more wealthy you were and standing within the community – so why is the traditional wedding cake suddenly falling from grace?

It started nearly 4 years ago with the cupcake trend. The last 18 months however has seen an explosion of couples shunning the oldest of traditions in favour of brownie and macaron towers, cake pops, meringue kisses, dessert towers and croquembouches, wheals of cheese and more recently the rise of the humble doughnut. And not forgetting the naked and semi-naked trend which is still going strong or the slowly gaining popularity of tiered savory pies!

These sweet treats are beautifully served, arranged on towering tiered cake stands, to pilled artfully high on ornate platters to being displayed on ring walls.

The ‘cake’ has become interactive, allowing couples and their guests the chance to experience the full monty – visually pleasing display, decadent smell, tantalizing taste buds and the comforting sounds that only a brownie or macaron makes when you bit into it. And here the clincher – it allows each guest to have some fun – unlike the cake which is solely looked at and once the ‘cut the cake’ shot has been taken, typically whisked away where it is quickly and efficiently divided up and brought out on platters for the guests. Now where’s the fun in that?

Perhaps we should provide guests with their own knife so they can cut their own portion  (or if your me – slab!) of cake?

It seems a shame then, that the traditional wedding cake is falling by the wayside – not just the victim of ‘nobody remembers the cake anyway’ cost saving but due to current fashion trends where its ultra modern to serve bitesize yumminess.

For me the cake will always be king and with many cake designers offering a wide range of luxury sponges of which each tier of your beautifully designed cake can be a different flavour – whats not to love!

What do you think? Has the wedding cake had its day?

For me a beautiful tiered cake will always be top of the list, as a society we now have more options available to us in the cake stakes than ever before. but as for the wedding cake having its day….. I think it’s here to stay, it’s just sharing it’s cake crown.

So whichever sweets your fancy, enjoy 😊

Sophie

xx

Venue Spotlight: Lapstone Barn

On a chilly February day i was thrilled to be invited to Lapstone Barns for a Champagne Lunch and exclusive look see around this new exclusive use events venue. Having heard about Lapstone on the grapevine for a while and how fabulous it was, meant it was top of my list of must see new venues.

I am always on the hunt for beautiful, unusual, eclectic venues to showcase to you and Lapstone Barn does not disappoint. Situated on the outskirts of Chipping Campden, and a stones throw from Broadway and Moreton-In -Marsh.

Lapstone barn is an Grade II listed 18th Century Barn, which up until the 1980s was part of a working farm. More recently it was granted change of use status and a series of workshops and business were run from the site before the decision to renovate the barns and create the ultimate North Cotswolds events venue.

Situated in the middle of a field, with panoramic views over the cotswolds, the barn makes an eye catching sight in her traditional honey coloured Cotswold Stone hue, making it every inch the idyllic Cotswold stone barn

As with all barns, you usually expect that slight chilly feel when you step through the doors, the thick stonework either preventing the sunshine of summer to penetrate or allowing the chill of winter to escape. In their careful renovations of this listed beauty the owners Kate and Henry have taken every consideration to retain the barns identity, whilst ensuring that every luxury and modern amenity that today’s modern bride/guest could crave.

The first thing to note as I walked through the door was the warmth…. the barn is beautifully warmed with a state of the art heating system. What was also surprising was the space available for guests to move around in, so even in inclement weather you’d still be able to celebrate in style.

In house kitchens and bar complete with roaring log fire and snug ensures that all everything has been taken care of.

You’ll Love This Venue If

Your in love with the barn wedding craze, and looking for a aesthetically pleasing, spacious venue with panoramic Cotswold views that isn’t going to cause goose bumps! The barn also has its own well stocked bar and comfy snug area for the evening.

Lapstones also have a civil license meaning you can get married either in the beautiful barn or under the trees in the central courtyard. Before moving onto the larger space for your wedding breakfast.

Can my guests stay

Whilst there is no current accommodation on site, there are plans to renovate the adjoining Edwardian farm house into luxury accommodation. Lapstones location means there are plenty of local options for guests including Dormy House Hotel, Manor House Hotel along with a variety of smaller boutique establishments and B and B’s. Lapstones can provide a list of local places to stay on request.

The barn does have a hayloft suitable for brides and her maids to get ready in – containing a wet room and spacious lounge area.

How Many Guests Can It Hold?

The barn can hold up to 200 guests for the ceremony, and able to comfortably sit up to 250.

Should you need to, a marquee can be erected next to the barn to cater for larger parties.

Why Chose This Venue

If your after that perfect barn wedding or a venue with stunning views that is a completely blank canvas then Lapstones is for you. The experienced in house team are happy to cater for all whilst the beautiful hayloft is the perfect place for brides and her maids to get ready in or to use for a few quiet moments during the day to regroup.

Not too mention it’s exclusive use offering meaning you can party freely with everything at your finger tips.

The main draw for this beautiful barn is its light, spacious floor space and deliciously warm interior. Whilst a central inner courtyard gives the option to mingle outside and provides additional floorspace meaning you and your guests will never feel crowded.

More images to swoon over:

 

Contact Lapstone today to secure your wedding date:

Website: https://www.lapstonebarn.co.uk

Call: 01386 849024

Email: info@lapstonebarn.co.uk

Happy Planning

Sophie

xx

Snow Wedding or No Wedding?

The last few days here in the UK has seen a Siberian polar front collide headlong into Storm Emma – the result minus temperatures, heavy snow and ice. Just in time for those getting wed over the weekend.

So if an unexpected Siberian weather front suddenly threatens your big day what do you do? Do you cancel or do you embrace the change and spend your last remaining hours wedding planning pintrest’ing the perfect snow wedding pics?

Honestly….. it’s your call and you need to do what’s right for you. But I truly believe that only you can let bad (unplanned) weather ruin your day.

Here’s a few tips for when the weather doesn’t play ball and snow threatens play:

  • wellies – don’t leave home with out them
  • blankets and wraps – nothing makes you feel warmer than snuggling in a selection of cosy cover ups – think thick, textured fabrics to ooze luxe
  • Add a touch of colour to pop against the snowy backdrop – think faux fur coats, tweeds etc why not colour coordinate with your wellies!
  • warm drinks – it may be preferable to switch the welcome fizz for hot chocolate (with cream and marshmallows of course!) and luxury coffees
  • Transportation – the beautiful Rolls Royce may not be able to make your day, consider hiring or borrowing a 4×4
  • How will your guests get around?
  • Can you hire rooms closer or at the venue for your guests?
  • As unsexy as it sounds can you get away with wearing thermals under your dress – it’ll make the outside snow shots that little bit warmer to bare 😉

For more inspiration here’s a few snowy shots:

Happy Planning

Sophie

Xx